"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is -- his good, pleasing and perfect will."
Repeating the same mistake is a bad pattern to follow. At some point, you have to tell yourself, "This just isn't working; God I need help!" At that point, God immediately begins to intervene and shows an easier way. Today, get good and tired of your pattern and let God's will lead you to easier days.